Young Children

Minor Protection Plan (MPP)

Planning for Young Children

For parents, estate planning is first and foremost about one thing.

If something happens to you, who takes care of your kids—immediately and long-term?

Many families assume a will is enough. But in real life, emergencies don’t wait for court schedules. A practical plan should cover what happens in the first few hours and the following years.

Parent-focused planning

Our approach is designed to reduce confusion, minimize court involvement, and make sure your children are cared for by the people you choose.

What Your Plan Should Cover

A strong plan for young children addresses:

  • Immediate, short-term care (who steps in right away)
  • Long-term guardianship (who raises your children)
  • How finances are managed for your children
  • Practical guidance to help caretakers act quickly and confidently
  • Clear instructions so loved ones aren’t left guessing

Why this matters

When there’s no clear plan, families can face delays, confusion, and unnecessary court involvement during an already difficult time.

Why “Just Having a Will” Often Isn’t Enough

Probate delay means money can be tied up

In Virginia, if you have only a will, many assets must go through probate. Probate commonly lasts 6–18 months (sometimes longer), and during that time assets can be tied up in a court process. That creates a practical problem for parents: money may not be immediately available to support your children.

Naming minors on IRAs or life insurance can trigger court involvement

Many parents list their minor children as beneficiaries on an IRA, 401(k), or life insurance policy. In practice, these institutions typically will not pay directly to a minor. That can result in a court-supervised process (such as a conservatorship) before funds can be used—adding delay, expense, and stress.

The practical solution is usually a revocable living trust.

You can name the trust as beneficiary on life insurance and certain investment accounts. When structured properly, those assets can pay out directly to the trust—without getting stuck in probate and without requiring the funds to be paid to a minor.
The result is that money can be immediately available to support your children through the trustee you choose, instead of being tied up in a court proceeding for months.

The Minor Protection Plan
(MPP) Approach

The Minor Protection Plan is a practical, parent-centered planning method that combines legal nominations with real-world instructions and organization. Your MPP can include:

  • Guardianship nominations
    Clear long-term guardian selections, plus backups where appropriate.
  • Practical information caregivers need
    Key details that help caregivers act quickly and confidently (schools, doctors, routines, contacts, etc.).
  • A documented, organized plan
    Designed to reduce confusion, conflict, and unwanted outcomes.
  • Emergency caregiver instructions
    Guidance on who should be contacted first and what should happen immediately.
  • Coordinated financial planning
    Structuring assets so your trustee can support your children without avoidable court involvement or delay.
  • Built to work in real life
    A plan that functions quickly when your family needs it most—not one that waits on court timelines.

What the Process
Typically Looks Like

Planning for young children doesn’t have to be overwhelming. The goal is a clear, workable plan you can feel confident about.

  • Clarify Your Guardian Choices
    We help you think through practical factors and select the right people—plus backups.
  • Build the MPP Framework
    We create emergency instructions and the legal structure that supports your decisions.
  • Coordinate the Financial Plan
    We align trusts and beneficiary designations so money can support your children without unnecessary delay.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is naming a guardian in my will enough to protect my children?

Naming a guardian is an essential part of planning for minor children, but it is only one part of the plan.

Parents should also consider who would care for their children immediately following an emergency, who would manage the children’s inheritance, how money would be available for their care, and at what ages or under what circumstances the children should ultimately receive control of inherited assets.

What happens to my children immediately if both parents are unavailable?

A will can nominate the person you want to serve as a child’s long-term guardian, but parents should also consider what would happen during the period immediately following an emergency.

A comprehensive plan can address both long-term guardianship and practical short-term arrangements so that family members and other trusted individuals understand the parents’ wishes and the children can be cared for while longer-term arrangements are put in place.

How does a revocable living trust help protect young children if both parents die?

For parents of young children, one of the most important benefits of a properly funded revocable living trust is ensuring that assets are available to care for the children when they need them.

Minor children generally cannot legally receive assets directly. Naming a minor child individually as the beneficiary of a life insurance policy or retirement account can therefore create significant complications. Similarly, assets that remain in a parent’s individual name and must pass through probate may not be readily available while the estate is being administered.

A properly designed trust provides a much better framework. Parents can coordinate appropriate beneficiary designations with the trust so that life insurance, retirement benefits, and other assets can pass to the trust rather than directly to minor children. Assets already owned by the trust can also avoid probate. The successor trustee can then manage those funds and use them for the children’s housing, education, health care, support, and other needs in accordance with the parents’ instructions.

This means the people caring for the children are not left waiting for the probate process to be completed before the family’s assets can be used for their benefit. The trust provides a structure through which funds can be received, managed, and made available for the children while they are still minors—and can continue protecting their inheritance until the parents believe they are ready to manage it themselves.

For families with young children, this is one of the most practical and important reasons to consider trust-based estate planning.

At what age will my children receive their inheritance?

That depends on how your estate plan is structured. Rather than requiring a child to receive an entire inheritance as soon as legally possible, a trust can continue to hold and manage assets for the child’s benefit.

Parents can establish standards for distributions and can decide whether control should pass at a particular age, in stages over time, or remain in trust longer for additional protection.

Can the person raising my children be different from the person managing their inheritance?

Yes. The guardian responsible for raising your children does not necessarily need to be the same person who serves as trustee and manages their inheritance.

For some families, naming different people provides a useful division of responsibility. For others, having the same person serve in both roles may make sense. The decision should be based on the strengths of the individuals involved and the needs of the children.

How can a trust protect my children's inheritance?

A trust can provide for a child’s health, education, support, and other needs without requiring the entire inheritance to be distributed outright at a young age.

It can also establish who will manage the assets, when distributions may be made, when the child may assume greater control, and whether assets should remain in trust longer to provide additional protection.

Tell Us About Your Situation

Use our contact form to share a few details about the trust, your role as trustee, or the administration issues you are facing. Our office will review your message and follow up regarding appropriate next steps.